Wednesday, April 30, 2008

Tampoline!

With Shelby's 11th birthday approaching in the next couple weeks and Ch'ree's not far behind that, Jeff (never one to keep or wait around for a surprise) decided while he was in town to get the girls an early birthday present.

A trampoline.

Now Mom, I know you said you don't think they are safe, but it's pretty big and lots of padding. And it will help them with their cheerleading stunts. Ok? Feel better now?


Here is the crew putting it together. Drew especially wanted to help. There were a few little glitches (one of which is Jeff not reading the instructions in the right order, then not listening to me when my common sense told ME how to do it, and I backed it up with the correct order in the instructions). But, he is a man and who needs stinkin' instructions? Not him!


Eventually it was all put together. Drew isn't quite sure what to do. So he just likes to sit there and let everyone else bounce, therefore bouncing him in the air.


Ch'ree's got the jumping down, though!

And wow, Shelby! Look at that toetouch!!

Chance likes to get in everyone's way. Especially Shelby's. What else is new?


Drew needed a break from all the bouncing, so he decided to sit on the brown drought stricken grass that I can't water til my well is fixed and pick his nose.


And his toes.

"Here mom, want some boogers and toe jam?"

And yes, I have been jumping on it, too. It's really alot of fun and a good aerobic workout. Which is exactly what I need to lose these last few pounds.

Monday, April 28, 2008

About a year ago, I heard about 101 in 1001. What it is: listing 101 things you want to accomplish, and you need to do it in 1001 days. Well, I had fun creating a spreadsheet for it, then I finally came up with 101 things to get done. Which was actually kinda hard to do. I have some piddly things on there (which still aren't done, so I guess they aren't so piddly), and some lofty goals as well. And as the year has gone on, I've actually added more than 101 things as I think of them.

As of today, I have accomplished 22 goals (not so good when you consider I've had a year to do them!).

Item 53: File away 2006 stuff (done May 9th, 2007)--whoohoo, I filed stuff. LOL! I actually have even done 2007 already too.

Item 37: Read Paula Deen Memoirs (done May, 2007)--A fun book. And I was desperate to find things for my 101 things to do, so I added a couple books to read. I love Paula Deen, she has such wonderful recipes that expand my waistline. I hate Paula Deen, because she has such wonderful recipes that expand my waistline. LOL! Her life has been very interesting, full of heartbreak and full of triumph. And it just goes to show you that even if you have nothing you can accomplish anything!

Item 88: Take my children to the ocean (done July 2007)--Last summer we went to Mustang Island (on the other side of Corpus Christi. We stayed in a campground right on the beach and could walk down to the water whenever we felt like it. We also went to San Antonio and saw The Alamo, Sea World, and the RiverWalk. It was HOT down there!!

Item 38: Read new Harry Potter book (done July 2007)--Picked it up on the way to San Antonio, the day it went on sale. Shelby and I had to fight over it, but we both got it read before we returned home.

Item 4: Pay off blue pickup (done August 2007)--Feels good to have that truck paid off! It was my first brand new right off the lot vehicle, and my dreamtruck (F-250 4door with the 7.3 Powerstroke, 4x4, leatherseats. Love that truck!)

Item 70: Sell camper (done June 2007)--this was on the list because we had just bought an '05 5th wheel, but still needed to sell our old '84. Sold it on Ebay to a really nice older couple from Louisianna. They drove out here to get it and brought a box full of Marti Gras beads for the kids.

Item 54: File current stuff (done September 2007)--I had alot of filing that needed to be done at the time. I try to stay a bit more on top of it now. LOL!

Item 96: Catch up all Quicken accounts (done september 2007)--Again, I was behind on bookkeeping.

Item 39: Give away 10 books--Got 'em boxed up, just haven't done anything with them. We have tons of books around here and not enough bookselves.

Item 66: Get a good Victoria Secrets bra! (done September 2007)--blush, blush. Yeah, this was something on my list. Got it done, thanks. Let's not mention it again.

Item 77: Have wisdom teeth pulled (done October 2007)--Got one pulled, bringing me up to 2 total. It was hurting and had chipped. Dr. Thompson fixed me right up. Didn't even feel it, really (dramatic change from when I had my first one pulled 10 years before. That dentist was a jerk and called me a crybaby. Wonder why I was so scared to have another one done?)

Item 69: Fix Tex’s pen (done October 2007, mostly done by Don)--Tex, my German Shephard, didn't like his pen. He would dig out of it. He didn't like to stay in the yard either, he would jump out of it. When Tex decided it would be fun to herd up the neighbors goats one day and she tried to shoot him (the only time he had ever run off anywhere), my father-in-law hooked the pen up to the electric fence box. He has since learned not to try to escape the fence. Actually, he only goes in it now if I'm going to work the horses (oooh, one time then).

Item 98: Get an iPod (Done October 19th, 2007 for birthday!)--I got an Ipod Nano! It's green and so cool! Jeff gave it to me for my birthday.

Item 18: Have family pictures done in 2007 (done, twice!)--We had this done in September 2007 for the church directory, then again at Sears because they are a heck of a lot cheaper than Olan Mills (who did the directory)

Item 75: Tree skirt for Holly and Jesse (December 2007)--I made a quilted Christmas tree skirt for my stepbrother and his wife for Christmas. It has a log cabin and a moose and pine tree on each side of it, it's a Debbie Mumm pattern. They live in Maine and I thought it fit them perfect.

Item 92: Build Barn at Ranch (done, December 2007)--Whoohoo, Jeff finally got his barn!

Item 97: Get a flatscreen computer monitor (done, Christmas 2007)--My Christmas present from Jeff.

Item 12: Remodel garage to music room/Jeff’s office (DONE, February 2008)--Ya'll saw this in progress.

Item 42: Set up store on website (decided not to do one)--Well, I thought I was going to make really cute personalized baby blankets and burb clothes and sell them online. Didn't work out too well. But, if anyone wants to buy one, let me know and I'll make 'em!

Item 56: Clean office good (February 08, completely moved office to garage)--relocating took care of this problem.

Item 11: Get kitchen remodeled (done March 08)--ya'll saw this in progress too.

Item 45: New light for front porch--it's bought, but not installed. Oh Jeeeeffffff...

Hopefully I'll get some more items posted before my 1001 days are up!!

Sunday, April 20, 2008

Ridin' the horses

I've always been passionate about horses. Always loved to go riding, or just brush and look at them. My first ride I was probably 3 or 4. It was in someone's house. Not sure why. Hope that little pony didn't make a mess. When my daddy took me to San Diego to visit some family, someone took me riding then. I remember when I was about 6 years old and my grandmother took my cousin to a riding stable that rented out rides. And I wanted to go SO BAD. But, I was forced to wait in the car (because I was having a huge temper tantrum). I was dusty and dirty and remembered wiping my dirty tears on the white bed sheet that Grandma used to protect the upholestry in the car. I didn't get a ride that time, but later that summer after I had calmed down, I did. I collected Bryer model horses, watched dang near every horse movie and read many a horse book (Black Stallions, Misty, Black Beauty, etc). I love horses.

When my father and stepmother first started getting their horses, it was one of the highlights of weekend and summer visits, just to brush them. I taught myself how to french braid on their tails, and enjoyed just clipping them with the electric clippers and brushing their manes and tails. I didn't even mind cleaning their stalls that much (really, Dad, I didn't. Some of my fondest memories are cleaning stalls and listening to the radio).

My father gave me my horse that I still have now. He was one of the first horses whose parents he owned and bred. His name is Dude, and I've had him since I was about 13. Everyone calls him a circus animal, and rightly so. He has a "spirited" streak in him. But he is my baby. I remember when he would be asleep in his stall and I would quietly walk in and lay down with him. He had a way of letting us know if he was out of water in his stall. First he would tear the 5-gallon bucket off the wall and stick it on his head. Then he would run it up and down the slats of his stall making a huge racket. When he would hear us enter the barn, he would then toss his head so that the bucket would fly over the walls of the stall and into the hallway so we could see that it was him out of water.

His spirited side wasn't always so cute. There was an incident with my father and the manure pile that Dude dragged him through. And the time when he tossed me into a fence. I think one time my dad threatened to shoot him with his .38 Special. LOL! He also used to have symptoms of colic about every 6 weeks or so and we would spend hours day and night walking him around praying he would be ok. Oddly enough, once I dragged his butt to New Mexico back in 1995, only one such attack occured.

Today for the first time in about 10 years, the kids and I talked Jeff into letting us ride the horses. It's always been a fear to let the kids ride. After all, why would they need to? We gather our cows with 4-wheelers and a feed truck. Jeff has no intention of letting them rodeo or show them. Then there was the local little 3 year old boy whose horse got spooked by a rope and drug him to death a few years ago.

Mundy is my father-in-law's horse. He's old. He's so old, he's been fitted for armor. He's so old, he's been shot with arrows before. He's so old, Coronado rode him into battle. He's so old...well, you get the picture. Really, he's about 28 years old. He had an accident shortly before Jeff and I were married (13 years ago) and messed up his hind feet. He's enjoyed a retired life out to pasture since.

Being that old and half crippled, Jeff finally decided that he would be gentle enough for his precious children. So we caught him, brushed him and saddled him up. Then Jeff led them around (just in case. Not taking any chances here).

Chance and Ch'ree had a turn

Then just Ch'ree. Mundy kinda has a mind of his own. He runs in two speeds: slow and stop. Here he had decided to stop. Dude was also nickering back in the pens. They weren't too sure of what was going on.

Then Shelby got a turn.


Shelby and Drew together

Drew and Chance. Drew has discovered that he LOVES horses!


After Mundy had his turn, I decided to try out Dude. We had a bit of trouble catching him. When you haven't had a halter on in years, guess you really don't want to get caught. But we finally did. First I brushed him, then lunged him a bit on a line. Then I wondered if I remembered how to saddle a horse. I had a little trouble with straps. Dude and I were raised riding English (he's a Tennessee Walking Horse, not a Quarter Horse like everything else around here), and the hardware and buckles are a bit different than our Western gear, but Jeff set me straight. Dude didn't object too bad with the bit, and I lunged him some more. Finally, I decided to just get on him and see what happened.

Had this been Dude 10 years ago, I'm sure he would have bucked or spun (in fact, I think that's what he did do last time he was ridden, 10 years ago). But I guess age must have mellowed him, and we just walked around for a bit. I even got him to trot a little, but that's it. It was nice just to be on a horse again. It's sad that he is about 22 years old, think of all the years of riding I've missed (doing silly things like birthing and caring for children).

And for a reward, they got a nice big bale of alfalfa. This is Mundy. And he has ALWAYS been this skinny. No matter if he has been wormed and on grain and unlimited supply of good hay (all of the above we have done). He's just a skinny horse. Dude has the exact same treatment and he's kinda fat. Go figure.

"Alfalfa? Alfalfa!! Why do THEY get alfalfa and all we get are cubes and unlimited pasture and haygrazer. We want ALFALFA!!!!" Look at the dust they are stirring up! No, they didn't get any alfalfa. Guess they are mad at us now.

"Where is my alfalfa?"

Wednesday, April 16, 2008

Cheerleaders

Earlier this month, our school's varsity cheer squad went to Albuquerque to compete in the State Spirit Competition. And this year they came away with the 1st place trophy!

We decided to surprise them as they came home that night by meeting them at the county line with almost all the village's fire trucks and the ambulance, lights on, sirens wailing, and gave them an escort to the school, where many parents and students were also waiting for their arrival. It was pretty cool to have a 1st place trophy at the school again. There have only been 2 in the last 10 years, and this is the 1st for cheering at our school (though we have had 2 second places before).


Sidelines during a boys basketball game.


Taking a breather after halftime
Timeout cheer
One thing that makes these girls so special is that over half of them are also basketball players. On game nights, those 5 have to go out and give there all for their game first (most of them are starters, too, not benchwarmers. One, a freshman, consistantly scores the most points as well. On Varsity. That same girl is also the only girl on the Varsity baseball team. She got a grand slam a couple weeks ago. These girls aren't wimps), then they have 20 minutes to clean up, change into their cheer uniforms, and come cheer the boy's game. See the girl with the leg brace on the right? She was hit by a TRUCK 2 years ago (before she moved here). In fact, points were deducted during their routines at State for the brace. And we STILL won!! Most of these girls are also in FFA (Future Farmers of America). The State FFA contest was held in Las Cruces the same week as the State Cheer competition. So some of these girls had to go to Cruces first, do their judging, then get their hineys up to Albuquerque for the cheer competition. Whew!!
What's really good is that none of these girls are going anywhere. No seniors, one junior. The rest are all 9th and 10th graders. There were 7 other schools in our division (1A).



And while we are on the subject of cheerleaders. These are the older half (4th and 5th grade) of the elementary squad that I coach. Well, some of them. There are about 12 girls, but I was focusing in on Shelby (cheerleader in the middle).

And here is the younger squad I coach (preschool-3rd grade). Ch'ree is in the back row, on the right.

Congratulations on winning State, Broncos!!!

Sunday, April 13, 2008

Elida Tournament, 2008

Last weekend was the Little Dribbler Tourney in Elida, NM. This is our school's first year doing Little Dribblers. Some of the kids have played on city leagues for years, and many have never played at all.

Shelby doesn't get to play a whole lot. She is on a 5th-6th grade team, and her being a) a 5th grader, b) it being her first year playing and c) 12 girls on the team, 4 of which are 6th graders, she doesn't get alot of playing time. But I did catch a couple of shots that she was in the game.


Getting the rebound!

Here she is hustling.
And here on the bench. LOL!

Ch'ree gets a bit more playing time on her team. It's a 3rd-4th grade team. But there are only 7 kids on the team: 2 4th graders, 3 3rd graders (including Ch'ree), a 1st grader and a 2nd grader.
Ch'ree holding onto the ball.

Hey, I got the ball!! Now, who can I pass it to?


She actually dribbled, too.



Drew had a good time in the concession stand. Here is Terminator Drew, checking out the brackets with his nachos and my sunglasses. He'll be back.

The Waldrip Visit, Spring 2008

Recently my mother, Judy, came for a visit with my stepfather (Wayne) and grandmother (Gram) in tow. They got to stay for 6 days, but of course it wasn't long enough. There just isn't enough time, plus it was a super busy week in our lives. The Floyd Jamboree was that week (which was part of the reason they came), and we also had a Little Dribbler tourney in Dora for the girls. And it was Spring Break (thank goodness, because my mom probably would have barely saw the kids if they had been in school that week!).

One thing Wayne wanted to do while he was here was to learn how to drive a tractor and plow. Of course, there is more to plowing than just jumping in the tractor and going, especially when it's the first time for the season for the tractors to get out. There was servicing, changing the oil, fixing various little things that were wrong from the previous year, welding stuff back together, cutting with the cutting torch, and other manly stuff with tools. Wayne got to see alot of this side of farming. Plowing was the break from all the fixing! LOL!

Jeff's not used to having a "hand" while he's plowing, so it involved some fixing up an additional plow. Now that he has that done, I guess he's going to expect me and Drew out there on this tractor.


Smile for the camera, Wayne!

Jeff got the bigger tractor, of course.




The visit also was an opportune time to catch some blackmail photos of Wayne. Like this gem of liberal Wayne unsuspectingly drinking out of Jeff's Rush Limbaugh coffee mug.


Or Wayne dipping a ritz cracker into a 5 pound tub of Sunland crunchy peanutbutter that he and Jeff had bought out at the peanut mill on Hwy. 70. Well, it was voted by Better Homes and Gardens as the best peanut butter last year, guess he had to try it out.

But we had a great time with them. Did some shopping for the girls, drank a few margaritas, watched a couple of movies, saw more than enough little kids playing basketball, and the Jamboree. And ate more than enough, too. LOL!

Thursday, April 3, 2008

Floyd Fire, November 2005

This post is an old one. I'm going back in time almost 2 1/2 years ago. There have been several fires recently, and this was content off the old site that is now gone. So just bear with me as I recount the events of that day and what happened afterwards.

It was Wednesday, November 30th. The week after Thanksgiving. I had just had another baby boy, Drew, 11 days before. My mother and family had been here for the birth and Thanksgiving and had left on Monday morning. We were getting back into a normal routine (well, as normal as life can be with a newborn). The girls were off to school, and I was sitting at home with the boys. Jeff was in town hauling hay from one of our fields to a dairy in Clovis.

Jeff called and asked me where that smoke was coming from. Smoke? What smoke? So, I went to all the windows in the house til I found a puff of smoke in the distance.

I'm a horrible judge of distances, so he asked me to load up the boys in the pickup and check it out. So, I travel down some dirt roads a bit and go as far west as I could go. The signs that say "Air Force Property: KEEP OUT" stopped me from going any further. I had reached the east border of the Melrose Bombing Range, the fire was on the range. But no big deal, they had their own fire crews and the wind was blowing to the North-East, away from us.

On my way back to the house, Jeff asked me if I could check on the cattle's water. We had recently moved the cattle to a different field a mile from the house. He told me I should be able to see the water float in the tank from road. Well, I couldn't see it. I didn't want to go in the pasture, it was a really hard gate for me to close (just a barb wire gate, but you have to put alot of pressure on it to get the wire loop over it). I had just had a baby and knew I didn't have the strength to get it shut. So, I called my father-in-law, Don, to see if he could check it for me. And I went back to the house.

Apparently the water tank wasn't working, because he called a pump guy to come out and work on it with him.


By that time, the wind had shifted. It was now blowing to the South-East, the smoke was coming towards the house. The wind not only shifted, but had picked up to about 40MPH. The sky and ground was a really eerie shade of brown and orange. Of course, I took pictures. LOL! But I felt safe because the fire was way out on the bombing range.

Then Don came to a screaching halt to the house and switched to Jeff's feed pickup. I thought he must be having problems with his truck. I fixed a peanut butter and jelly sandwich, a glass of milk, and sat down to check email. Then the pump guy came up and said, "Let's get y'all out of here!". By the time I got the baby into the carrier car seat, he already had Chance in his carseat in the truck. I left my lunch at my desk, and was wearing my oldest, holiest, most worn out pair of sweatpants I owned (because I did just have a baby and nothing fit me. I was going for comfort, not style. I may have brushed my hair that day, but I know I had no makeup on). Great, I'm getting evacuated and I look HORRIBLE and can't go back to get something better.

I didn't know where to go. Jeff told me to head to his parents house. But how could I go there when I don't know what's happening at MY house!


The fire was west of my place. So I went to the Mesa road, 2 miles south of the house. I drove up and down it (pacing in a pickup). All I see is a wall of smoke. Dang it, I wish I had thought, as I was being evacuated, to grab the video camera. And my digital camera battery was nearly dead, too. I have crappy clothes, few diapers, and no batteries! I always thought that if I were evacuated I would grab my scrapbooks, important papers, my computer, and as many clothes as I could throw into the camper, hook up and take off. My evacuation plans had gone out the window.

I looked north to where I should see my house and this is what I see. Smoke and flames! I have no idea if I still have a house now, everything could be gone, all my clothes, furniture, stuff for the baby. At one point I saw a huge burst of flames in the air, and I knew I had lost my home.

Well, I didn't. It was the abandoned house up the road 1/3 a mile. The old Feland place.


I shamelessly steal pictures, too. This is from news footage from when the TV station in Albuquerque got here. I think this is the road west of the school. The video actually showed tornadoes of fire jumping across the road.

The smoke was getting closer to the Mesa road, and suddenly my phone rang. Somebody told somebody who told my mother-in-law that the school was being evacuated. I raced that way, and just in time got my girls off the bus. They were fixing to take the whole school on an emergency "field trip". They actually did go to a local dairy, then when the fire got closer to that, took them all to a church in town to wait for parents to get them. And here I have to pause and say that we have some of the best kids at our school. The high school kids came down to the elementary and preschool and helped the teachers out with those little ones.

I finally went to my inlaws house and waited. There was nothing else to do. Of course, my mother-in-law took pictures (since my camera had died) and got me in my grungy sweats. I'm not going to share them with you.

About 4pm, the suspense was killing us! What was going on! Cell service was down, we had no information (had I known that a local radio station was reporting most of the whole thing, I would have made sure we had tuned in. But most stations here are live only in the morning and a satelite feed the rest of the day). So I fed the baby, and left all the kids with Linda and ventured out.

I went straight to my house and was relieved to find it still there. But so much was burned around it for miles! I went back to the inlaws and gathered my brood and went home. My lunch was still sitting by the computer. I threw it away. The whole place smelled like smoke.



The fire burned about 35,000 acres.


Here is the town of Floyd. The WHOLE town. The highway goes right thru the middle of it. The fire came to the back door of the Baptist church (you can see the steeple to the left of the middle). It burned thru the cemetary. It was even at the back door of the old gym at the school!

It got so close to this teacher's house, it melted the vinyl siding!


If you know where to look, you can see most of our ranch (but not our house). It's almost all gone. Remember back when I said Don came and got the feed truck? We had cows in that field. The cows followed that feed truck like a lifeline to the recently vacated summer pasture. He said that he saw the last cow come out of the gate, then saw the flames sweep across the gate itself. That's how close it was. He then had to evacuate the cows AGAIN when another branch of the fire went thru the summer pasture. The cows were moved to the pens by the house. Thankfully the firefighters were able to keep the flames away from the house and the pens.


This is our neighbor's place. In fact, they hadn't even moved in yet. They had just bought it and were remodeling. They lost 2 or 3 outbuildings. There is a bit of land towards the top of the picture (but not all the way to the top). If you know where to look, you can see a bunch of little dots all the way to the left of the picture. These are our hay bales, they weigh about a ton each. They were all in a neat line thanks to the handy dandy accumulater the baler has. But now the fire was using the line to jump from bale to bale of hay! Jeff had raced home and was using his pickup to break up the line of bales to keep the fire from burning it all! The hay was already sold and paid for, but he saved all but about a semi load.

In all, the damage was one habited house, several abandoned ones and outbuildings. No injuries, but several cattle had to be put down. And many, many miles of fence. As I drove my crew home that night, our road was lit by the cedar fence posts that were still burning.

There were dead rabbits everywhere. Even in the road. One neighbor said he would see rabbits on fire running as fast as they could to get away from the fire, and therefore causing more fires! The school smelled like smoke real bad. There was no school on Thursday or Friday so the cleanup people could put their Ozone machines in there to clear it all out.

The fire was bad. But the long dry winter was to be miserable. That was the year we had no snow. And the rain was turned off from October before the fire until about June. Jeff says, "It was dryer than a popcorn fart!". It was also WINDY. It was probably just normal. But with no vegetation to hold the ground, the dirt just BLEW. One day it was so bad, that Jeff actually MISSED our driveway as he drove home!

The sand was horrible! The fence that wasn't burned was getting covered up by the sand dunes.
This used to be a fence post.

This is the parking lot for the community building and school busses. The Lion's Club storage shed was burned, as well as the sound equipment for the annual Jamboree and their grill.

More of the bus parking, and the preschool playground. The sand was all the way up to the bottom of the kids' swingset. Not pictured is the monkey bars in the Elementary playground. Put it this way: they didn't hang from the bars anymore, they just walked across.

Some friends of ours moved to town. This is there front yard on moving day.


And here is Chance playing on the sand dunes in the yard.

Of course, we are VERY thankful that no one was hurt, and that our home was saved. I think 14 fire agencies worked on this fire, and over 200 fire personel. We suffered about a 700 acre loss, including our entire winter pasture. When the claims people arrived, they asked why we had let the grass get so tall. Well, it was to feed cattle all winter! Duh!! We also lost about 7 miles of fence that had to be rebuilt.

But out of the ashes...or however that saying goes. Even though we had no rain until summer, after a year or so the grass was back better than before. You can never tell now where the fire was. Jeff sooned joined the volunteer fire department and is currently working on his EMT-Intermediate license. But whenever we see smoke in the distance, we remember our fire.